Path to Enlightened Insanity

Yet another blog entry that has been started, but wasn’t finished. This one dated June 16, 2009 at 10:58 AM

I had an interesting discussion with a friend of mine who has 160 gigabytes of music, thats several weeks. I wonder what do you do with 160 gigabytes of music? I can understand if you’re DJing regularly or something along those lines, but he doesn’t. Last I checked he hasn’t even listened to most of it. Its a matter of collecting to collect.

I do that to. I have a box below my bed of a collection of cards, not greeting cards, cards that would go in your wallet and the like. I’ve got a bunch of starbucks cards and some other ones. Its nice having the collection, its small and compact.

Another entry that has been sitting around for a while, this one dated February 20, 2010 at 8:15 am

This blog entry has been percolating in my head for many months, although this is the first time it has met text.

One of the things that I think has been sadly lost in our society is celebrating what we share. Too often in our daily lives we jump to identifying what is different and what divides us from others. This is useful in our daily lives, but it is also hurtful. Too often when we’re identifying our differences we often approach identifying what divides us as a search to identify where we will have our battles.

I read Ted Olson’s Conservative Defense of Gay Marriage and I cried. Notwithstanding its exceptional eloquence I was moved that someone who on first glance should be one of my staunchest political enemies was espousing a stance which I wholeheartedly agreed with, but one which also came from a place of true honesty within his beliefs and values.

I’m doing a bit of cleaning out of those entries that I started but never finished… Here is one titled Marriage etc. As I remember it was a response to a Facebook discussion, or something along those lines. The file date on it is December 21, 2008.

Interesting idea to think about: The Salvation Army (a church) is in favor of not having Christmas be recognized as a federal holiday. Why? Because having the government recognize such a special day diminishes the experience.

I don’t like the fact that some religions can and have chosen to recognize gay marriages, but because of other church’s beliefs they are unable to bestow the same legal rights on gay couples as they do on straight couples. This is clearly an infringement of freedom of speech/religion. So by banning gay marriage you are actually infringing on freedom of religion.

I know ministers who will not sign marriage licenses for this very reason.

Jared, I’m reminded of the scene in Jurassic Park (the book, not the movie) where they’re amazed that they discover the dinosaurs are breeding because the computer system they’ve set up to track them only checks for the preset number that it expects to there to be. They’re only looking to make sure they’re not losing dinosaur…

I say witty pithy things to the cats when I leave the apartment. Usually they’re not memorable, but I felt a need to write this one down.

Part of love is that it’s ephemeral
One of you will lose the other
And I will lose one of you
Then the other

I found this waiting for me when I went to compose another blog entry today. I wrote it back in October..

Ah to finish every thought I’ve had!

So, today is my first annual 29th birthday.

I’m finding myself at an interesting point in life. I’m opening up a bunch of doors without closing very many others. While this does make me long for a 96 hour day,

I find myself with an interesting set of conundrums with interpersonal connections.

I’m entering the joyful world of developing new connections, close and deep connections with someone who I hope to get to know better.

I’m also stuck with the dreadful task of having a discussion with a dear friend acknowledging that connections are gone, and we should cherish and embrace the past for what it was.

I wrote this on a specialized depression support group forum, but this must be shared:

The most insidious thing about depression is that we start to see life through shit colored glasses.

It can be hard at times, but when things are looking really shitty, I ask myself two questions:

1. How could this be worse? (It couldn’t be worse isn’t an allowed answer.)
2. What is good about this situation? (Everything has an upside, even if you have to work a backwards way through it. E.g. “I will be stronger, and more understanding of myself.”)

I don’t allow myself the right to allow myself to dwell on depressive thoughts: I have not earned that right. To reinforce this, I remind myself of the story told by Viktor Frankl of people in the internment camps who chose, even under those circumstances that they would be compassionate toward their fellow man. Until I have dealt with that, I don’t have the right to dwell on my depressive thoughts.

I’ve been exploring the concept of headspace lately. Playing within the kinky world has brought this concept really close to the surface, but I see applications of the concept as I move throughout my life.

Eeeewwwww! There’s a lotta dust and cobwebs in this place!

I’ven’t posted anything on this blog since May, and I’ven’t

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